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Wednesday, 26 May 2010

  • Do your parents get involved?

    A couple of weeks ago, my sister was left heart broken and miserable because the guy she wanted to spend the rest of her life with had broken up with her. Read my other blog: Couples Who Can’t Along…And you’ll see what I’m talking about.

    I wasn’t very surprised when I heard about it. I just knew it would happen and someone had to be the bigger person to let it go. My sister on the other hand isn’t taking it very well, and her heartbrokenness led to her harassing him and then to him blocking her completely out. She got angry to the point to where she called our mother crying because he didn’t want to get back with her and didn’t want to speak to her. And knowing my mother, she’ll do anything to see her babies smile.

    I felt bad for him because no matter how much he explained himself to her she just couldn’t understand the reasons why. So, when my mother saw how upset my sister was she got involved and called up her ex nearly cursing him out. I told my mother not to get involved and how Andrea (my sister) should learn how to fight her own battles without people fighting it for her. And thing about my sister is that she always gets her way one way or the other, because next thing you know he’ll end up knocking on the door with a dozen roses knowing that he doesn’t love her the way that he use to.

    But James (my sisters ex) told my mother the same thing he had told my sister. But see, my mother is similar to my sister, when rejected they often lose their balance and don‘t know to act, they don’t always understand the reasons why, when deep down inside you know they understand but refused to admit it, and most of all they always try to make you feel guilty about your decision.

    My mother think its because I’ve never been rejected that I don’t understand the feeling of being neglected and heartbroken. Yes, I do understand. I’ve been rejected before. I know what its like to have someone want you one minute and the next they’re pushing you aside. And just because I broke up with the guys who pushed me aside didn’t mean that I was not heartbroken afterwards. I just don’t take my heartbreaks to the point where I make myself miserable.

    Everyone has different ways of handling a heartbreak up. But to get someone else involved because someone doesn’t want to be with you is a different story.

    Have your parents ever been involved in your relationships? Were they the key to fixing it or making matters even worse?

Thursday, 06 May 2010

  • Is it the women's job to cook and clean?

    I’m going to throw this first question at you ladies and gentlemen:

    Do you expect your SO to cook and clean for you? If so, Why? Would you take turns?

    Another question:

    Should it only be the women’s job to cook and clean while the guys just sit around and do nothing?

    The reason why I’m asking these questions is because a friend of mine think it’s a women’s job to cook and clean. He isn’t the first guy to mention it, my brothers, yes my very own brothers told me that a woman’s place is home cleaning and in the kitchen cooking. I remember when I was working on a hard project at the age of fourteen, and my brothers quickly told me that they don’t see any reason why I go to school or do homework when my place should be home learning to cook and clean.

    I cringed whenever a male relative comes over and expect you slave over a stove, get them a beer, and get them the remote that happens to be a foot away from them. I understand that they are guests but they are not strangers either.

    My friend also mention that if a woman doesn’t cook or clean its pure laziness and she is not wife material. WTF. Since when? Shouldn’t that be other way around? Shouldn’t guys learn to get up off their asses, pick up a broom, and learn to put a pot on the stove instead of looking for women to do it??

    I wouldn’t mind cooking for my SO just as long as we can take turns cooking and cleaning and balancing out our work together. But if he expects me to do everything, then I guess I’ll be the one cooking for myself.

Sunday, 02 May 2010

  • Attracted...but for all the wrong reasons

    There’s nothing wrong with being physically attracted to someone. But trying to make the attraction more physical is a different story in my opinion. There are times when I don’t mind the compliments, but when someone tries to ease their way to my comfort zone because they want a piece of something is way out of the question.

    I tend to be more annoyed while the compliments just keep on flowing. I know what I look like, I know what I have, so please stop reminding me. I know a guy who compliment me all the time and its rather annoying than I thought it would be. You’re hot. You’re beautiful. You have a nice ass. You’re tits are big and round. You’re body is banging…Need to say more? Its just so annoying. And I hear these same compliments every single day.

    When I was hanging out with him yesterday he just couldn’t keep his hands to himself. He reached out and grabbed my ass, kept rubbing his elbow against my boobs, tried to pick me up so that way my body was against his and that he’ll have every reason to put his hands on my ass. And even worse, he tried kissing me. When I saw that he got a little too close, he leaned over to me and whispered “I like you a lot, but I just want to get it all out” and before he could kiss me I turned away and gave him a mouth full of hair.

    He isn’t the first guy to say these things to me let alone try to feel on my body just because he was that attracted to me. I guess the way I look makes me seem like I’m an easy target for others to come and try to play with me. But I’m not easy and most guys who tried this got shitted on by me.

    Has anyone ever experienced this before? Share all your stories

Tuesday, 27 April 2010

  • Ten Things The Next Girl Should Know About My Ex

    1. Don’t be surprised if he falls head over heels right after he asks you out.

    2. Don’t be surprised if he takes you out and expects you to pay for everything.

    3. He gets jealous very easily. So just give up all of your friends, ignore your family, and spend every waking hour with him. You will never have time alone let alone be happy.

    4. He listens to his friends. They don’t have to know you and you don’t have to know them. Anything they say about you will have him questioning everything about you.

    5. He think he can make your boobs grow. So if you’re a C cup and magically go into a Double D cup. Don’t be surprised its his magic. Make sure he touches your boobs every day, because if he doesn’t and they just magically burst through your shirt, don’t beat about the bush you’re just cheating on him.

    6. He loves sex. I mean, who doesn’t. So when he’s feeling a little hot down there just give him a touch of you magic even though you don‘t feel like it. If you start feeling a little sick a few weeks later, you’d love how paranoid he gets until he start saying “I know its not mine. Who is it by?”

    7. He has identity issues. So if he’s constantly changing the way he talks, the kind of music he listens to, the way he dress, his likes and dislikes…I can go on and on. Just pretend you didn’t notice.

    8. Everything he says goes. End of discussion. Just keep your comments and feelings to yourself, because your comments and feelings would interfere with how GOOD the relationship is going.

    9. He’s very manipulative and doesn’t take the blame on anything. And he will blame you for everything, even though you weren’t there when it happened. That includes blaming you on his family issues, the problems in the relationship, the reason why he is the way he is, his grades in school, and his loss of “friends”. Just say you’re sorry, I guarantee you he will never let it go.

    10. The girl he talks to the most is the one he will end up with right after you break it off with him. So, don’t be surprised if he falls head over heels in love with her, uses her against you, and kisses her right in front of you.

Sunday, 25 April 2010

  • When THAT song reminds you of someone

    Today, I was taking the bus home, and while listening to my MP3 I came across a few songs that reminds me of someone I almost “loved”. It was one those slow R&B songs from the 1970s. And while I was sitting by the window on the bus, this slow song by the Intruders came on and went with what I saw before I got lost in my thoughts. What I saw was that it was raining, and its very weird that whenever I go out in the rain this song just randomly starts playing on my MP3.

    My thoughts started to go back three years ago and I started to think about Carry (yes a guys name). Carry was this guy who was flat out hilarious. He even didn’t have to say anything because his expressions said it all. He was also very caring and cared a lot about people. He would even offer his seat to someone just because he thought about that person more than he thought about himself. And he was also very polite towards those around him.

    I had met Carry during our freshman year of high school. I don’t remember exactly how we met, but all I remember is how badly we use to torture each other every time we ran into each other between our class periods. Haha Memories…But I ended up changing schools before my Junior year and I went months without seeing him until one day he shouted “MY CRUSH!!” as I got on the bus and walked towards the back without even seeing that he was there. He had no shame in his game and if he liked you more than ever he would be sure to tell you even if it put you in an awkward position. Did I mention that he was very down to earth? Well, he was that too.

    But during the times when I was rekindling our little friendship I was dating a guy who was very possessive towards me and of course threatened to hurt Carry if he continued on with our friendship. Carry was basically the only friend I had, and who was willing to help me even though I didn’t want to be helped, held or filled with kisses. But he stuck around long enough before I pushed him away. And I know it had hurt him, I felt his hurt even though I wasn’t there to see it.

    Its been about three years since I last saw Carry and talked to him. And the reason why these songs I play remind me of him is because that was all he use to play. I could hear him play those old songs and say “now what you know about this?” Not that I didn’t know the songs, because I knew all the songs before he old me he had an old soul like I had.

    I’ve been trying to find him from myspace to just randomly looking through my old phone books every now and then. But looking for him is just impossible…almost as if he never existed. I just wish to hear his voice again and apologize for everything I’ve ever said to him.

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